Welcome to The Library

Free & Paid Resources for the words you live by,

and the words you leave behind.

What You'll Find Inside

Whether you're journaling through a life transition, writing your book, or trying to find your voice again, this library is for you.

You'll find a curated collection of writing prompts, practical rituals, printable PDFs, and full programs forged from lived experience, designed to help you speak your truth, reclaim your identity, and rewrite your brand or your world.

Wander the aisles, choose your own adventure, and take home what speaks to your soul.

The Take-What-You-Need Table.

Free downloads, prompts, PDFs and little gifts. Whimsically added to often. Print them, write in them, scribble in them. Use them again and again.

Word Magic - 11 Forbidden Words to Reclaim Your Power
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Word Magic - 11 Forbidden Words to Reclaim Your Power
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This rebellious little guide cracks open 11 words—terms that have been used to shame, silence, or shrink you—and gives them back their original soul.

For each word, you’ll uncover:

  • The twisted meaning they fed you

  • The original root that reveals the truth

  • A reclaimed definition that feels like coming home

  • A spell prompt to rewrite the narrative—for real

This isn’t fluffy mindset work, it’s a soul-deep reframe for women done with playing nice and ready to speak in power.

If you’ve ever been called too much, too loud, too selfish, too emotional... This is your liberation map.

Because these aren’t just words, they’re living spells, and some of the most powerful ones have been twisted to keep you small.

Download it now. Start unbinding the words that once bound you.

Rewrite your Story Journal
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The Storybook Nook.

Your cozy corner for all things writing, publishing, and storytelling.

The Perfect Plan For Writing Your Book
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The Perfect Plan For Writing Your Book
Sale Price: $11.00 Original Price: $22.00

Planning sometimes isn’t the strongest point for multi-talented creatives, but when it comes to writing a non-fiction book, it’s actually pretty helpful, and dare I say, even essential if you want to bring this impactful book to life anytime soon.

This little guide is a great starting point to organize your thoughts, clarify your vision, and help you stay on track throughout the entire writing process (yes please!)

This is the perfect download to help you with the foundations of your book, and it's an absolute steal.

Seriously, if you get the foundations right, the rest just flows!

Writer's Survival Kit (The Messy Middle)
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Writer's Survival Kit (The Messy Middle)
$22.00

This is for those of us in the messy middle... it's a jam-packed concise little guide with the tools I use to help me when I want to burn it all and start again... (which I wrote when I was on my third book idea for my first Influential Author’s program… as authors came on the book writing journey alongside me).

This resource is now a staple part of the program, one of the bonuses received upon signing up but I’ve made it available here if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed in your own writing journey.

Bio Magic - The Glow Up
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Bio Magic - The Glow Up
Sale Price: $44.00 Original Price: $111.00

Creating a snapshot that positions you as the expert, increases your cash flow, and condenses your magical self into a few paragraphs takes serious skill!

We want your sass, the juiciness of what you're all about, not a boring AF predictable list of accolades that sell you short.

And it's the one thing you’ll need ready to go when someone suddenly asks you to send over your bio. The other option is muttering “Oh f*ck!” under your breath & curling up in the fetal position with a bottle of gin.

Writing about yourself is one of the most difficult things to do, especially if you don’t want to cringe at the thought of someone else actually reading it!

Whether it’s for a book, you're guesting on a podcast or blog, being introduced on stage or anywhere else you're showing up, you need an unapologetic, irresistibly compelling Bio that showcases exactly who you are and what you stand for, and why you’re the only choice.

If you want to DIY, this jam packed yet super simple to follow Bio Magic Formula will help you create something far better than the standard bios going around (seriously, my eyes glaze over reading them!).

And there's a bonus Emergency Bio Spell for when you need one RIGHT NOW (because not all bios are born in deep reflection and candlelit creativity. Sometimes, you need to conjure one right now—without losing the magic... or freaking out and having a hot mess meltdown).

All for only $44 for a limited time... and when I say limited time I don't mean forever but I'm manipulating you to buy with bullshit. Nope. I know the power of words and the energy they hold, so integrity is at the core of everything I say.

The price will rise to $111 so if you want a bargain, or need a bio ASAP, this is my gift to you.

Practical Pre Launch - Sell Your Story Before You Finish Writing It
Sale Price: $22.00 Original Price: $44.00

The moment you start writing, you’re already in relationship with your future readers. Marketing while you're still writing it is a brilliant way to build excitement, grow your audience, and ensure readers are ready to purchase as soon as it’s published.

But this isn’t about premature promotion or pushy marketing. This is about resonance; letting people walk with you through the creation.

It’s the quiet groundwork that ensures your book doesn’t disappear in the musty shelves of a few polite relatives who will never even read it.

It’s how your story finds its people before it’s even finished.

Download your 37 pages of practical pre-launch magic!

The Legacy Shelf

Programs, courses and deeper work.

  • Influential author program to write a impactful book

    Influential Author

    Transform your story into an influential book that builds your authority, inspires your audience, and grows your legacy.

  • A person holding a lit sparkler with a bokeh background of colorful lights and smoke. Overlaid text reads 'abracadabra Bitch!'

    Abracadabra, Bitch!

    Rewrite your world in 12 weeks of spellbreaking liberation. We’re breaking the old scripts, cracking the chains of borrowed language, and writing ourselves back into power.

Need a little more SJF?

Looking for one-to-one support with your book, editing, or publishing journey?

You can work with me directly here: SallyJaneFriday.com


A sneak peek inside
Abracadabra, Bitch!

This book became the foundation of the program, the library, and pretty much everything else I've built.

Here's a little taste..

“The stories we tell (out loud and in our heads) are spells. And whether you feel it yet or not, you are freaking magic. A modern day genie with an invisible sparkly wand casting spells all over the place.

You’ve just been taught to wield it the wrong way.

So was I, and my life was a shit-show that mirrored back to me the belief that I couldn’t save Bec, so I must either be really stupid or a bad person, and both those versions meant I didn’t deserve the life we dreamed of. You may not have had that kind of experience, but trauma looks different for everyone. And so do the belief systems we unknowingly pick up from our parents, friends, peers, work environments, what we read, watch and what we consume.

“There just aren’t enough hours in the day to get everything done.” (Poof! Time disappears faster than your motivation at 3 p.m.

“I always get sick at the worst time!” (Achoo!)

“I have the worst memory.” (Wait, what were we talking about again?)

“Ugh, this day is gonna be a disaster.” (Disaster mode: ACTIVATED.)

Your words have been shaping your reality since the day you were born.

Why? Because you were designed that way. Your brain is a loyal little soldier, it doesn’t argue, it doesn’t debate, it just follows orders. And it will search for proof to back you up that you were, in fact, right.

It’s not just your brain that is so obliging either. The universe loves to play along too—the unseen forces that weave through reality are always listening. The energetic field that exists all around us and connects us all is constantly responding to the signals you send. Your words don’t just rewire your subconscious—they ripple out into the quantum soup of reality itself.

‘Ugh, I always hit every red light.’ (BOOM, there’s another one!)

‘I never have time for myself.’ (Congratulations, your schedule is now jam-packed with errands, interruptions, and pointless distractions.)

‘I suck at relationships!’ (Got it: subconsciously sabotage every potential good one that comes your way.)

Now, before you freak out, here’s where it gets messy. And I want to make this super clear so read this slowly:

Not everything that happens is because you “manifested” it with your shitty thoughts.

If you’ve dipped your toes in the personal development and spirituality realms, you’ve no doubt heard that we create everything in our reality—the good, the bad, and the oh so ugly. And that if something terrible happens, you attracted it.

That’s toxic positivity wrapped up in pretty words. And it’s bullshit.

BS I lapped up like my life depended upon it!

I spent years doing the inner work, trying to heal the broken parts, clear my blocks, raise my vibration, and keep every thought in check so I didn’t accidentally manifest more of the stuff I was trying to avoid. I became obsessed with controlling my mindset, terrified that if I let myself feel anger, sadness, or fear, I’d attract more of it. Gasp!

So I kept trying to fix all the unruly parts of myself, signing up for program after program, convinced that they would clear my limiting beliefs, past life agreements, lineage wounds, inner child wounds, balance my masculine and feminine, and light up every shadow that dared to exist so I could magically manifest my dream life, with six figure months on repeat.

Seriously, I’ve spent more money trying to fix my ‘money blocks’ than I care to admit. Thousands on coaches, courses, and quantum money activations, convinced the next one would finally unlock my inner millionaire. My bank account still didn’t get the memo, so of course, some savvy words on a landing page (poking those old pain points) convinced me that if I signed up to this one, it would be last course I ever needed. It wasn’t.

Yes, your words are powerful. Yes, they do shape your reality. But this book isn’t about gaslighting you into believing you manifested every shitty experience in your life. It’s not about shaming you for your struggles or major life challenges, or telling you that because things went sideways it’s all your fault. And it’s definitely not about wanting you to read all the magic in these pages from a place of not-enough-ness.

Fuck that, I’m here to help you unleash the magic you already hold!”

Pre Orders Opening soon

FYI I was writing and editing long before ai made em dashes cool (and overused on socials). I’ll continue to use them in my books because they have a purpose… so if you’re removing every em dash in your book to not look like ai, breathe. Your words and your story will stand the test of time.

Pay It Forward

The Library lives because of women like you.
Some give when they can. Some receive when they need. Around this table, both belong.

Your contribution helps fund free resources for women rebuilding their lives, and scholarship places in future programs if and when they have the capacity to begin rewriting their world.

If you landed here needing some help, please message me hello@hotmessgoddess.com.au

Give what you can. Take what you need.
Either way , you’re part of the magic.

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A white ceramic cup with hot chocolate being poured into it from a white pitcher. There are pieces of chocolate and a green cloth in the background.

the reflection ritual

Not sure where to begin? Begin with yourself.

Make yourself a cacao (if you need some, you can buy ethical cacao here and support our mission), take out your journal, and ask:
What’s the strongest spell running through my life right now?
Start there. The right nook in the library will call you when you’re ready.


Here in the Spellbreaker’s Library, every word is a wand and every story a spell. Take what you need, rewrite what no longer fits, and let your truth ripple into your family, your community, and beyond. A world where words set us free begins with yours.

#RewriteYourWorld #BreakTheSpell #AbracadabraBitch