Every Word is a Wand. Every Story is a Spell.

For multi-passionate women who’ve walked through fire and emerged with messy hair and a fierce heart.

Here we reclaim our words, break their old spells, and turn our stories into legacies. If you’re ready to share your story or rewrite the ending, we’ll hand you the mic, the pen, the tools and the community to #RewriteYourWorld.

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  • Hot Mess Goddess is a global movement to dismantle the language that caged us, because when you change your words, you don’t just change your story. You change everything.

    Here, we wear our contradictions like a crown. Our holy mess, our poetic rebellion, our sacred chaos. We're dreamers and doers, we crave community and solitude. We’re sassy enough to say what we mean, soft enough to say it with love. And we want to be seen on our terms, not in polished perfection.

ENTER THE SPELLBREAKER’S LIBRARY

  • Where words become spells, stories create legacies, and your voice holds power.

    Something I always wished existed… a library where we can dismantle the language that caged us, and reclaim our words, our stories and our worth, one spellbreaking sentence at a time.

    Surprise little bonuses are added from time to time, and there’s a growing community obsessed with the linguistic sorcery inside the Spellcaster’s Library.

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    The Podcast

    Dive into unfiltered convos and word-magic stories from rebels rewriting their worlds.

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    Hot Mess Goddess Press

    Publishing books, journals, planners, and making full use of our stationary addiction.

Love Notes

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Sally Jane Friday

Founder, Author, Recovering Journalist

Words... my thing

Writing... my therapist

Chocolate... my drug of choice

Exposing Word Magic... my f*cking obsession

I’ve spent decades studying words and language — as a journo, copywriter, poet, editor, etymologist (that’s a thing) and as a woman untangling the spells I unknowingly swallowed along the way. Now, I’m on a mission to expose the manipulation, reclaim the words that caged us, and spark a movement to rewrite our world.

Because every word you speak, think, or scribble on a page is shaping your world. And when you reclaim them? You don’t just change your story. You empower your family, community, and generations to come, one spell-breaking sentence at a time.

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